Quoting frustrated from 00:43, 29th Apr 2008
What is the difference between liking someone as a good friend and liking someone romantically? What makes someone one and not the other?
Can you like someone romantically without just wanting to shag them?
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Quoting Hennessy from 22:43, 16th May 2008
I've heard a lot of stuff about this supposed "friend zone" many a hapless man has landed up in without wanting to, or just be being a decent human being and not taking advantage, is the OP in that situation?
I'd say mutual attraction is the basis for romance, I wouldnt necessarily put it all down to sexual attraction. You can think of someone as beautiful and not want to instantly have sex with them.
But being friends is a good start, just so long as she doesnt consider you some sort of male eunuch, that horrible dead-end expression "just friends". If there is an attraction there you owe it to yourself to own up about it. If that's the end of the friendship then fine, game over, you lose, move on. Nothing you can do about that.
And "jumping their bones" is a rather odd expression. Brings necrophilia to mind somehow...
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what makes you assume i am male? there is definitely sexual attraction on both sides (the relationship has gone past the "friend zone" as you call it for a while). the main problem as far as i can see it is that he is scared of messing up the friendship, which seems stupid to me at this point.
Quoting the racing tortoise from 19:38, 21st May 2008
(remember he's a guy, and subtle stuff probably won't work).
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Quoting AliceChalliner from 17:24, 21st May 2008what makes you assume i am male? there is definitely sexual attraction on both sides (the relationship has gone past the "friend zone" as you call it for a while). the main problem as far as i can see it is that he is scared of messing up the friendship, which seems stupid to me at this point.
When you say he's said he doesn't want to "mess up the friendship"....obviously i don't know either of you, but at a guess, I'd say he values you as a friend but just doesn't want to take it any further....i always think that phrase is one of those which, when it's used in relation to taking a relationship further or not, is as a nice way of saying you just don't want to.
Unless of course he is just very very deep and meaningful and pensive....but i think if you like someone and want to be with them, you know it pretty soon after it comes up....
Quoting AliceChalliner from 17:24, 21st May 2008what makes you assume i am male? there is definitely sexual attraction on both sides (the relationship has gone past the "friend zone" as you call it for a while). the main problem as far as i can see it is that he is scared of messing up the friendship, which seems stupid to me at this point.
When you say he's said he doesn't want to "mess up the friendship"....obviously i don't know either of you, but at a guess, I'd say he values you as a friend but just doesn't want to take it any further....i always think that phrase is one of those which, when it's used in relation to taking a relationship further or not, is as a nice way of saying you just don't want to.
Unless of course he is just very very deep and meaningful and pensive....but i think if you like someone and want to be with them, you know it pretty soon after it comes up....
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