Are all men commitment phobes?

[losingtheplot]

I am finding it difficult to meet a man in St Andrews who wants a relationship. I have no trouble finding a man who is after sex and don't get me wrong I love sex, but I want more than that now. I have been there done that - had pishy relationships. I want more and it's just not happening. Every guy I meet just wants sex. Do men who are not afraid to give it a go not exist anymore??

[Jared]

What do you offer that would have someone want to tie themselves exclusively to you? Impress a little and you might get more back...

[Guesty]

omg, you're having sex at least!!

[whoneedsaplot]

I could be interested, I know it's rude to ask a lady her age, but a clue to your age range would be nice.

[beeny]

Maybe you've put them off by partaking in so much "fun"
Seriously, maybe they've painted you as 'not girlfriend' material. Maybe stop acting so desperate and immature - looking for a boyfriend-and-anyone-will-do-so-long-as-they-want-to-be-a-boyfriend. Shouldn't you like a person and hope that turns into something, rather than just looking for *a* boyfriend? Irregardless, these things often happen when you're not actively looking for a partner and are happy being single anyway. Did for me

[losingtheplot]

23

[whoneedsaplot]

23 is a good age, young enough to do what you want but not 18 or 19 any more.

If you want to post an email address, I'll get in touch and have a conversation not on here.

[losingtheplot]

What is your e-mail and what age are you?

[Al]

What's that you say? Someone aged 23 isn't aged 18 or 19 anymore? Really?

[TheMissingPlot]

Hi there,

your ad sounds nice and we are having the same problem. Few girls here seem to be open to have a relationship and casual sex doesnt do the trick any more. Its good for some time but in the end it feels empty and thats not what i want.
Fancy getting in touch? I am 25, postgrad, do some sports. email: hinzthekunz@web.de

[whoneedsaplot]

I'm older than you, but would rather not post my age on here

My email address is whoneedsaplot [at] gmail.com if you want to get in touch

[losingtheplot]

Saturday night and in uni... see my point