[s][b:16mk9rqj]Kibet wrote on 17:31, 6th Dec 2003:[/b:16mk9rqj][i:16mk9rqj]
some people see masturbating as wrong, so would that guy be seen as the best kind of person if he was caught masturbating?
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There is a big difference between masturbating and sex. In a relationship sex is seen as being an expression of love. If that person has been off with 20 girls/guys before is it really going to feel special? Or would you prefer to know they'd just masturbated and decided to wait before sex. And besides everyone masturbates, it's just a mechanical action.
Or maybe that's just old fashioned and it is now expected for everyone to shag as many people as they can for fear of being called square?