- having a job after being unemployed for 20 months was my biggest acheivement, even though its working at a university (yes, i'm the guy that made this thread awhile ago:
viewtopic.php?f=10&t=24077).
- growing up and getting real. i wanted to follow acting too like the lonelypilgrim above me states, but after continuous rejection decided to give up my dream career and settle for any job because at the end of the day the money's more important and i cannot go on in life waiting for that big break if i got rent and bills to pay.
- getting tough. i used to be a softy but not anymore. i remember even trying to add some people who i used to know on facebook, like people who i used to study with, and they'd reject my friend request multiple times, so i decided to quite playing nice and gave them a vicious piece of my mind. this included some flatmates and a lecturer (told the lecturer that she probably remained in academia because she couldnt hack it in the real world, and that her new marriage i would give it 6 months). this new found aggression has proved helpful in making me a more alert and streetsmart person and not a fuzzy booksmart. i take no shit from anyone now and i feel more powerful, although more violent too. (i guess all this grew from the depression and anxiety of being unemployed for so long, having suicidal and even homicidal tendencies as a result of this)
- but a big negative acheivement has been deleting little shits in my life who make no effort at maintaining my friendship with them. for example, i have been nice to someone all year, always saying hello and giving them complements and all. and all i get is just 'thank you' replies which say nothing, and found out there was a xmas party and i was the only person from the group that didnt get an invite or a mention. so i finally grew a backbone and told them all to fuck off. it felt great. i'm sick to death of being frustrated in a friendship whereby i have to make all the effort to keep it going (otherwise it fades away immediately).
- its kind of wierd, to alot of people 2008 is a bad year because of the credit crunch, but to me since it all really kicked in in august, things have been going better for me. perverted luck, perhaps? i don't care. all i can say is i'm alot happier now than i was this time last year. i know for certain if i was still unemployed i would've done a virginia tech.