Quoting David Bean from 03:50, 21st May 2005
- Affectation of certain kinds of mannerism (including strict observance to norms of ettiquette and dress codes) by those who show no compunction in stabbing their friends and colleagues in the back...
Why do one's mannerisms or dress have any bearing whatsoever on whether or not one "stabs people in the back"? Are alleged back-stabbers somehow less entitled to wear certain clothes or behave in a certain kind of way?
...or who believe that these are more important to the overall wellbeing of the Society than efficient organisation
Anyway, the phrase "stab in the back" (famously used, incidentally and as I'm sure you'll know, by those far-right groups who chose to assert that Germany was in fact undefeated in 1918) is usually employed by those who feel betrayed as a result of others' actions, whether or not those actions actually represented any particular change in individual policy.
A few people I know have been hurt by my actions in the past, simply through their own naïveté in their initial assumption that I actually liked them, rather than from any traitorous or duplicitous behaviour on my part. I would not regard myself as having "stabbed them in the back", though they may regard me as having done so.
I have no idea to whom specifically you may be alluding, David, being as I am supremely oblivious when it comes to politicking within the U.D.S., but based on my own experiences as mentioned above I suspect that the stab-ees' poor judgement of motives may be as much to blame as the stabbers' actions for any rancour that may exist.
Sorry for my rather rococo phrasing.