Well lets think about it in 2 ways :) First of all your attitude to your hand, and secondly analyse how it was played out.
You look down at QQ, your heart does somersaults and quite rightly make a raise. The raise isnt large incidentally, you may wish to reconsider it. A large pocket pair, you dont want to be called by a loose A or K which hits flop and traps you. Perhaps $3 to make sure people at the table know you mean business. The moment you flat call a raise to 10.50 you have married yourself to this hand. You are saying that even if he has AA or KK you dont care, you love your hand and want to play it. Why are you saying this? Because you flat call...
To explain, lets now analyse the hand.
>Playing $0.25/0.5 NL with about $60 stack i raised $2 under the gun with QhQd
Under the gun, this raise is tiny. You could be re raised from anywhere around the table, even by an under pair, and you wouldnt know. You need to put these under pairs under pressure, put AJ/A10 under pressure. Instead you create a situation where the pressure is on you. DONT MAKE BAD RAISES UNDER THE GUN!
> and it was folded to the button who called, then the small blind reraised it to $10.50, big blind folded.I called (possibly i should have reraised here but he would certainly have called so it is of little consequence)
Interesting that you think he wouldnt have folded :) What possible reason does he have for such a large re raise? My immediate thought in seeing such a raise is that he wants you to fold!! But regardless, there is one thing you absolutely must not, never ever do in this situation....
... and that is call.
why? What if he has the under pair we mentioned earlier, he has you under pressure (which is the wrong way around) and forces you to misplay by calling. If an A or K comes on flop he can bluff you out. A re raise from you will make him chuck a lower pair, if not then lets be honest YOU WANT HIM TO CALL! However, he has the most likely hand which is AK. He has the nutnopair, prays you have AQ or AJ. He would never ever raise with AK in this situation unless he wanted you to fold. You either do as he requests, or re raise him all in. I dont think he will call this all in bet, if he does then take the race and pray. You could also fold in this situation very easilly, hand him $2 which isnt a lot (or $3 if you had raised correctly in first place)
>We saw the flop two handed and it came:
>Qc Js 10c
>He checked i bet $15 and he raised to $30.
Now at this stage your misplay preflop becomes evident. If he had JJ or 1010 he is still a mile behind, but his check and limit raise should shout at you that he has the nuts, a broadway straight.
For future reference, the chances of a board pairing itself are approx 1/5. So after his limit raise you should be packing up the shop and waiting for the next hand to be dealt. However, again what you mustnt do is call! If you want to draw, then put yourself in a position where you make no more decisions. When you flat call you green light him to put all in on turn, afterall you could be on AQ! Put the decision on him, not on you. Of course he calls, and you still lose, but dont drag yourself through a steam engine in the process of losing a hand, all that will do is put yourself on tilt and lose more money later.
Just recite to yourself:
Poker = pressure on opponents, not on you.
Hope that helps