My parents drove up from Wales in tandem with me on the first Saturday (they made me drive in front so that I could remember my own way for the future) and they helped me unpack everything bar the kitchen sink that I had brought with me.
But they left Melville immediately after that - probably no more than 30 mins after arriving. I had lived away from home on my gap year previously so they knew how important it is for parents to "fuck off" in the nicest possible sense and let us get on with life. In any case, they were staying with friends in Edinburgh that night and coming back to St Andrews the next day for the parents' thing with the Principal. In fact, that is something you may want to bear in mind, that there is a talk/reception for new parents on the Sunday in Lower College Hall, which if they want to attend may mean they hang around you longer than you want them. If they don't get the hint, then I would kindly tell them to go off around town themselves and let you get on with the business of making friends. If your parents are like mine and were quite happy not to see me at all on the Sunday then you're sorted. Say goodbye until Christmas
I've seen examples of parents who go out with their kids on the first night (or even first few nights) of Freshers Week and I cannot for the life of me fathom it. Why would any parent or student think it wise to not take part in any of the bonding activities that go on? I can understand some parents might have come from afar, but surely there are ways around having them spend all the time together.
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