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by **S.D** on Wed Oct 08, 2003 9:41 am

Let's face it, we've all been in that situation--the first date with a hot guy or girl--everything is going absolutely wonderful. Fireworks is flying all over the place. Then you get to that awkward time where both of you are standing in your doorstep.....

Would you "go down" on the first date?

by **Pussycat** on Wed Oct 08, 2003 11:35 am

*is speechless*

by **Kibet** on Thu Oct 09, 2003 6:14 am

[s]Unregisted User S.D wrote on 02:03, 8th Oct 2003:
Would you "go down" on the first date?

when elton john had his first date with mike the boxer just after he bit off hollifield's ear (mike not elton) he sang
"don't let Tyson go down on me"

not an elton fan so unsure if lyric is in a song of the same name or not

by **Rennie** on Thu Oct 09, 2003 4:28 pm

Go down? On a doorstep?

by **Rennie** on Thu Oct 09, 2003 4:29 pm

Go down? On a doorstep?

by **S.D.** on Thu Oct 09, 2003 6:18 pm

[s]Rennie wrote on 17:28, 9th Oct 2003:
Go down? On a doorstep?

LOL. Well I guess if you must. But I really hope you'll at least get a room.

by **Guest** on Thu Oct 09, 2003 7:35 pm

[s]Unregisted User S.D wrote on 02:03, 8th Oct 2003:
Let's face it, we've all been in that situation--the first date with a hot guy or girl--everything is going absolutely wonderful. Fireworks is flying all over the place. Then you get to that awkward time where both of you are standing in your doorstep.....

Would you "go down" on the first date?

Please tell me your not serious. What happened to the old making out/snog?

by SD on Fri Oct 10, 2003 1:21 am

[s]Unregisted User wrote on 20:29, 9th Oct 2003:
[s]Please tell me your not serious. What happened to the old making out/snog?

Why bother settling in for a simple snog when you can go all the way? LOL.

by **Guest** on Fri Oct 10, 2003 11:51 am

[s]Unregisted User SD wrote on 00:29, 10th Oct 2003:
Why bother settling in for a simple snog when you can go all the way? LOL.

Because most people have more respect for the other person. What kind of message are you sending out if you do that? That you are easy and do not really want a good relationship. If you don't then fine but I dread to think of the kind of guys you will attract with that attitude.

by **Rennie** on Fri Oct 10, 2003 4:03 pm

I think if both parites are happy with the 'going down' situation, then it's perfectly alright. And, if the girl makes the first move then not many guys would resist, depending on the girl in question!

by **Kibet** on Fri Oct 10, 2003 4:06 pm

[s]Unregisted User wrote on 12:31, 10th Oct 2003:

Because most people have more respect for the other person. What kind of message are you sending out if you do that? That you are easy and do not really want a good relationship. If you don't then fine but I dread to think of the kind of guys you will attract with that attitude.

I was assuming that SD was a guy.
whoopsie

by **hum** on Fri Oct 10, 2003 5:22 pm

[s]Rennie wrote on 17:03, 10th Oct 2003:
I think if both parites are happy with the 'going down' situation, then it's perfectly alright. And, if the girl makes the first move then not many guys would resist, depending on the girl in question!

It's interesting though that it has taken over the role of the snog to such an extent that many people feel it is expected of them, rather than it being something they naturally go on to do in the course of the relationship.

It's worse than sleeping with someone on the first date really.

by SD on Fri Oct 10, 2003 11:36 pm

[s]Unregisted User wrote on 12:31, 10th Oct 2003:
[s]Unregisted User SD wrote on 00:29, 10th Oct 2003:[i]
Why bother settling in for a simple snog when you can go all the way? LOL.

Because most people have more respect for the other person. What kind of message are you sending out if you do that? That you are easy and do not really want a good relationship. If you don't then fine but I dread to think of the kind of guys you will attract with that attitude.
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Notice how I ask a "would YOU" question. Hence, I'm not expecting everyone to agree with me, nor am I expecting everyone to have the same answer. Obviously everyone will have their own opinion in this matter. Also, I hope you realize that I was kidding with that reply. But let's be realistic, we've all been in that situation--and if you haven't been already, then I can assure you it will happen to you in one of these days.

As for the "message" I'm sending out--I'm not sending ANY message. I'm simply asking for people's input!

by **Rennie** on Sat Oct 11, 2003 1:07 am

I have to say that I don't think personally that is has taken over the snog as an acceptable 'first date event' by any means.

by **Abracadabra** on Sat Oct 11, 2003 1:25 pm

I think it's quite funny how there's a thread about someone having trouble deciding if they should go as far as KISS on the first date on the Main Sinner board...I wonder what they would make of this one?!

by **hum** on Sat Oct 11, 2003 2:12 pm

[s]Unregisted User SD wrote on 19:41, 10th Oct 2003:
But let's be realistic, we've all been in that situation--and if you haven't been already, then I can assure you it will happen to you in one of these days.

That's hardly realistic. Being in a committed relationship as I am, I have never and do not wish to experience the "shall I go down on the first date". Not my style, so not classy.

by **Precious** on Sun Oct 12, 2003 8:41 pm

Oh, for God's sake. I don't see how you can speak for all of us when you claim we've all been there. To answer the question, I think you should just do what you BOTH feel comfortable with, there is no right or wrong answer to the question as long as you know you're both happy with what happens. I probably wouldn't do it though, I think it's a bit too intimate when you hardly know someone.

[hr]Teeth! Teeth, my preciousss, but we has only six!

by **Miss Maryland** on Tue Oct 14, 2003 4:12 pm

i wouldn't do it.

[hr]Why is it that Archers' Schnapps have screw-open tops and Archers' Aquas have bottletops?

http://www.angelfire.com/poetry/colescott (crap poetry)

by **marladurden** on Wed Oct 15, 2003 10:14 am

As long as it's light enough that you don't see any herepes or puss at the tip, going down outside where you can get caught is hot.

by **pressurepoint14** on Sat Oct 25, 2003 2:14 pm

Well i dont know about most guys but for all i might persue a girl to that point, if a girl actually goes that far with me after only knowing me for a few hours then she is automaticly excluded from my love life.

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