Quoting DrAlex from 10:58, 2nd Dec 2006
Seems to me that if you really like him, you could get off your pedestal and forgive the fact that he's done something in his past that you don't agree with.
Quoting from 23:17, 1st Dec 2006
He didn't get it but I can't stop thinking of the poor woman. he says he did it because he's insecure and needs practise and that most m,en think that it is ok and I was being an unreasonable bitch.
Quoting Rufus from 16:46, 2nd Dec 2006
His anger is also probably a result of you judging him when he cares about your opinion.
Quoting Senethro from 21:40, 2nd Dec 2006
Have people missed the part where he was expecting sexual relations for money?
I think this guy likely has a warped worldview and although her overreaction to him didn't help or achieve anything, I think it better not associate with him anymore.[img]littleicons/paper1.gif[/img]
Quoting Senethro from 21:40, 2nd Dec 2006
Have people missed the part where he was expecting sexual relations for money?
I think this guy likely has a warped worldview and although her overreaction to him didn't help or achieve anything, I think it better not associate with him anymore.[img]littleicons/paper1.gif[/img]
Quoting straightguy from 04:33, 3rd Dec 2006
It's a bit of a weird topic to suddenly drop into conversation!
Prostitution is not exactly acceptable to the majority of people in our society. If it was we would have loads of people admitting to paying for it. What did he think your reaction would be? Did he think you would stroke his ego with positive comments about his sexual ability and commitment to pleasuring his lucky partners! Anyway he wasn't confessing, he was bragging or trying to get a reaction.
You are entitled to your opinion about prostitution, and he is entitled to his. However, i think this man shows disrespect for women in general.
i.e. calling the prostitute a cheap slut, calling you an unreasonable bitch, calling you a slut, and last-but-not-least *expecting* sexual favours for loaning you money.
You are not over reacting. If i were you i would clear my debts to this man (money not sex!) and not be with him again. It is a shame but you two are obviously not suited to each other and you should not abandon your standards/morals (whatever) just because you really like him. You might just realise that you don't actually like this guy at all - now that you really know him.
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