Dominant Alumnus seeks submissive girl for play

[Guest]

There's a lot to say and I'll tell you more if you would like to e-mail me at james15973@yahoo.co.uk -- in general though:
- I live in North West England but will travel
- I'm into many aspects of BDSM, have few limits and will discuss anything
- other than being a sub girl, I don't really have any other requirements
- I'm only looking for play, not romance, sorry

I'll gladly talk about this and answer further questions if you e-mail me.

Thanks.

[Guest]

With the summer approaching and people going home, it occurred to me that there might be some Lancashire, or nearby, girls out there who'd like to try something different this summer. If you'd like to get in touch, it's still james15973@yahoo.co.uk -- whether you're more experienced, simply curious or somewhere in between, feel free to say hello.

[Guest]

I have changed my address to:

nyd_780@hotmail.com and I'm no facebook with that address. The old yahoo address is still on the profile but not active.

[Al]

You seem somewhat needy for someone who claims to be dominant.

[Anonforthis]

Registered user posting anon for this.

Al doesn't know what he's on about.

In what universe can two updates in over a year be described as "needy"? It's natural to try to find similar-minded folk on the internet, because the chances of that interesting person you just met in the pub having similar/compatible sexual/BDSM interests are, frankly, slim.

Someone who is dominant in a BDSM context is not the same as someone being dominant generally. Someone who comes across as domineering in negotiation of BDSM should set off serious red flags as someone who is highly likely to cross boundaries and be abusive (or, alternatively, is living in fantasy land and has no idea how it actually works). A good dom - that is, a responsible and safe one - will care about everyone else's experience just as much as their own, and is not in any way demanding or pushy in negotiations. Politeness and decency as a human being in no way excludes the possibility that someone can be hard-core in scene.

I have absolutely no idea about the original poster's personality. I'd just like to counter a fairly common, and wrong, idea.

Yours,
a switch (yes, dom and sub)