by Gullable Fool on Fri Sep 27, 2002 7:53 am
Whenever I've said, "You're too nice", its always meant, "You're too serious about me, you're too nice TOO ME, and it freaks me out, I don't want you to be dependent on me when I don't return it". But then, this could be that I'm a bitch, and have no bearing whatsoever on the general female point of view. Also, I know that comes out as a rant, but its that the feeling is hard to express.
That aside, you sound like such a nice guy (not just based on that post, I've always thought that), maybe you've not found someone cos you don't really want someone serious? I don't know, but maybe its that you haven't wanted anyone specific, just wanted a relationship? Hark at me with my amateur psychology! Sorry. That's not meant to be patronising, or grating, or nasty in any way. : )