sorry, but this is some of the worst shite which i've come across in a long while. so, in order:
although it is very understandable that you want to be happy and have children, is it really fair on them? . . . It is evident to see what havoc broken and single parent homes (not to say that all single parent families are doomed far from it) can reap on childrens' delicate psychological wellbeing. It makes no sense to create another instance where there is a chance for this to happen
i. yes, it's fair on them.
ii. so are you equating single-parent / divorced households with single-sex, married households? i'm puzzled. you admit that single-parent families can work: so if the equation goes through, where's the problem?
iii. the worst bit is the 'it makes no sense to create another instance . . '. Bollocks. Are you suggesting that parents who are likely to cause problems for their 'childrens' delicate psychological wellbeing' should be prevented from having children? There are plenty of unprepared, untalented, irresponsible people out there, but you seem to have no problem with letting them marry and have kids. Inconsistent, no? Or perhaps you think that gay people make bad parents. Hmmm. Feel like arguing for that one?
The right for same sex couples to have children is not withheld by some irrational moral decree, but by nature itself
i. Analogously: 'the right for people who have cancer to live is not withheld by some irrational moral decree, but with nature itself'. Do you think that makes sense?
Two further points:
a. we are part of nature; the stuff that we decide to do is 'by nature'.
b. even if think there's a decent natural/unnatural distinction to be had, it carries no moral weight. Do you think aeroplanes are bad because they are man-made?
Flarewearer's post is well put.
Macgamer, you're a nasty little man. If you want to make these kind of assertions, maybe you had better attempt to justify them.