by ambigous on Sat Mar 01, 2003 12:45 pm
Hanging around isn't going to change stuff massively. You actually need to get out and meet lots of people. Sure, there are several girls who would happily leap into bed with you after meeting you at the bar.
But there are also people in St Andrews who aren't that straight forward. But saying basically you just want sex isn't really the way you get what you want.
If you want a loving relationship, then surely sex is just a part of that, and may come with time. And believe it or not, although sex can be good, it isn't all its cracked up to be..
But why are you so bothered about it anyway? If you just want to meet someone now, then you actually aren't too bothered about a relationship, more about what you can personally get. If you want that kind of thing, its not too hard to get that in the bop.
But if you want to make time to put together a proper relationship, then you
should make the time to get to know someone. When you get to the stage where there is someone you would do anything for then you are in the right stage for a relationship. Take as long as you want to - last time I was really crazy about someone, it took me a year and a half to get around to asking her out. I know thats probably too long, but I'm making a point. Don't rush into anything.
And don't beat yourself up either.
Just take your time..
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Hey, don't give yourelf up yet, it's only in your head you feel left out, and looked down on.
Just try your best, try everything you can..