by Thalia on Tue May 06, 2008 1:43 am
Yeah, i tend to cuddle up for a few mins and then i'm too warm and need to move away if i want to sleep. Of course, it helps when you actually have space to move away, you just have to learn to adapt when you've only got a single bed :P
I think i would say the nicest thing is less the body heat and more just knowing that they're there. The comforting feeling of not being alone.
And in answer to the original question - I kinda see sharing a bed as an intimate thing. I wouldn't tend to offer space in my bed to a friend unless the other option was something like a cold hard floor for them :P But i always just kinda saw that as one of those things that happens when you grow up - sharing a bed gets linked with relationships and sex so it starts to feel kinda odd to just sleep together with a friend like you would when you were younger.
Although i don't mind the thought of sleeping next to someone somewhere other than in my own bed...so maybe it's more to do with my linking my bed to relationships rather than sleeping next to someone, eh, i dunno.
But then, maybe that's just me and i'm odd - maybe everyone else would be happy to cuddle up together if the option arose ;-)
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