Quoting Power_Metal_Dom from 21:25, 11th May 2008
From my upbringing I knew 'dating' as the somewhat unhelpful phrase 'going out' which was interchangable with being in a relationship too. As far as I know people still 'go out' but I'm not sure if it's as planned as a 'date'. If you suggest going to have a drink with someone you're in to you wouldn't think of it as a 'date' in the way we see it on the screen.
Didn't the union do some speed dating at some point? Maybe that'd encourage more dating couples.
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Quoting littlelegs from 01:45, 12th May 2008I suppose what I'm asking is....is there any other way than a sleazy drunken hook up to break the ice?
Quoting littlelegs from 21:08, 11th May 2008
My girl friends and I have been talking recently about all the soppy romance movies and relationship-related soaps that we've grown up with over the years, and we've noticed that the British just don't seem to date. If you see a couple out for dinner, or at a movie, they are almost certainly an 'official' couple. What happened to dating? Why don't we do it?
Quoting rob 'f*ck off' wine boy from 15:13, 12th May 2008
Outside university, getting pissed and getting lucky isn't the most efficient method if pursuing the affections of another, I imagine.
Quoting Spiryt from 15:06, 12th May 2008
I wholeheartedly agree with the points raised in that article. Meeting someone at a party, getting their number and spontaneously inviting them to dinner a few days later? Not a chance in hell, far less following some sort of strict code while doing so.
In fact, relying on some sort of formal guideline of what (not) to do during not just a date but the entire dating process sounds like neither party has the spine to decide what they want out of it.
Now perhaps this steps on the toes of people who are shallow enough to desire the experience of dating more than the company of the other person, but I think the above approach turns what should be an enjoyable experience for both parties into some sort of foul aberration, where the underlying attraction has been smothered by terms and conditions.
To hell with formal dating!
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Quoting littlelegs from 19:42, 12th May 2008
so is the consensus here then, that dating is an awkward experience that should be left for the middle-aged and desperate, and that drunken hook-ups are the way to go? Does that not just sound totally pathetic?
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