by LonelyPilgrim on Thu Apr 23, 2009 9:29 am
Success. Well... a story then. About a week ago, I attended a small seminar at a prominent American university. At this seminar were three professors, holders of PhDs, working more or less in my old discipline. One was even the head of a research institute. These were men who had travelled the world, written extensively, and earned prominent chairs at a prestigious university. Intimidating men.
As many of you may be aware, I did not complete my undergraduate degree at St Andrews, for a variety of reasons, and have not returned to higher education to complete it anywhere else as yet. Over the years this has been a major source of insecurity for me. I've walked on other university campuses with a sense of inferiority. Coming from a broken family of modest means, and a rather backward part of my country, meant my travel to study in Scotland at a world-class university was about more than an education to me. I had rational reasons for quitting my studies, but that hasn't helped me cope with the irrational sense of having failed at the great adventure of my life.
Yet, when the question and answer period for this seminar came around I managed to get the first question in to the panel. I introduced myself, told them my position and the nature of my employers business, and proceeded to ask what should have been an easy question for these men of learning. Instead, they had no answer and had to guess: they guessed wrong. What followed was 6 or 7 minutes of them asking me questions about a topic they should have known better than me, but about which they were completely ignorant. After the seminar ended, they were quick to seek me out in the milling crowd, give me their cards, and express great desire to be of service if they could. I had intimidated them.
The seminar was on the global financial crisis' impact on Third World development prospects and the panellists were experts on global trade, global development and inequality, and Third World politics. My questions and the conversation that ensued were to do with the political and economic environment and prospects for Somalia - a country one of the speakers had even mentioned in his part of the seminar. By any reasonable standard these men should have been able to answer simple questions about that country and its outlook since they are supposed to be experts on those very sorts of subjects and all three focus their work on Africa. Instead they were first like deer in the headlights and then like ingratiating puppies.
I've seen academics behave that way before in my discipline, which was IR, when 'practitioners' walk into the room - the men and women who do the real work of shaping the world. Even though I've had my current position for several months now, it hadn't occurred to me until that night that I'd become an IR practitioner: chief operating officer of an international charity. Admittedly we're very small, very poor, and it's a daily struggle to stay afloat, but... we're making a tangible difference. And I'm a practitioner - without a degree, without years working my way up through a bureaucracy, without waiting for someone to say, "Here you go, you deserve this job." That realisation felt a lot like success - but it's not because of the specific job I have: I love it, but I don't see myself doing it for the rest of my life. It's not because of any level of wealth or comfort: at the moment I'm barely being paid - the budget is too tight. It's not because of power: we're small, and we hope to have a major impact in humanitarianism within a few years, but right now... it's just a lot of hard work in the dark.
Rather, I think success is this: Success is realising that the world doesn't belong to the best educated, the best connected, the smartest, the prettiest, or even the most talented. The world belongs to the people with the will to act. It belongs to the people who do; who have the courage to implant their will upon the world outside their own minds. Degrees and job titles and money don't mean a damn if the cost of attaining them is always sacrificing or postponing the pursuit of your dreams. We aren't promised a tomorrow and everything you have can be taken away in an instant. The only thing you can fall back on is your own will: your own intimate knowledge that you will persevere or you will perish. That doesn't mean education, or wealth, or job security are bad things... they are usually good. But they are merely tools: means to an end.
As for myself, I will show respect where respect is due and I will even show deference where deference is due, but I know I won't be intimidated again because I know what I want and I'm not afraid to pursue it and no one else can stop me from making my best effort every single day. If that isn't real success, I don't think the word has value.
Man is free; yet we must not suppose that he is at liberty to do everything he pleases, for he becomes a slave the moment he allows his actions to be ruled by passion. --Giacomo Casanova