by EviLTwiN on Sun May 04, 2003 7:35 pm
love is something that you're sure won't ever work when not in it, and something that is the best thing in the world when you are. I don't think it is possible for anyone here to have an objective view.
I was in love, and it was amazing, now it's over and it felt like crap for a while, and now i think i'm falling again, only this time its unlikely they'll ever know due to circumstance. So why bother? The pain is necessary if you want to enjoy being in love at certain points of you life. If you didn't experience both life would be pretty boring.
Being single but like/wanting someone is actually a great feeling, but the only time you can appreciate that is looking back in the future when you'rewith someone. While you're single the fear of not getting them/rejection/being single means that you can't really enjoy it so much. At the moment i feel like i just want to sleep for 6 months, i feel unhappy at the situation before me, but as long as there is a tiny bit of hope, no matterhow small, I'll hold on to that, and enjoy the uncertainty. When you do find someone (as you will eventually) you'll miss the feeling you get when you see/talk to the person you secretly like.
It's extremely hard to believe this when you're so unhappy due to relationships/love, but it's true.
When you're 55 and old and past it a bit you'll wish you were this age again, you'll want to feel this miserable... because its not miserable, it's just all part of life. The pain of love/relationships is what makes love so special, and it makes life worth living.
So come on, lets get some depression you wusses!!!
I'm not sure what this has to do with the thread, other than i came to this conclusion recently, and thought id share it.