by Guest on Fri Jan 23, 2004 2:24 pm
What gays don't have as a result of not allowing same-sex civil unions:
1. A right to see their partner in hospital in ICUs (as are not next of kin), to make decisions concerning their partner's treatment in the case of an accident, to make decisions concerning ending life-support treatment. (This has to be the family, even if the partners are in their 80s)
2. A right to inherit property (like a shared house that is in the other's name), money, posessions upon death, again, even if both are 80 and have spent 60 years together.
3. A right to adopt their partner's existing children to put them in position as a legal guardian. (Not talking adopt other children, just the children that might live with them anyway). To see why this is a problem, see 1 as well as other varied reasons involving signing forms, etc. In the case of death of the original parent, children might then be put into foster care instead of being allowed to live with the one person who is left who they have spent their entire lives with until this point (I appreciate this issue is somewhat separate from civil unions, but also inseperably entwined.) And please don't post about giving the children to the original birth father/mother, not always a possibility as the child might be the result of a one night stand and we know how many single mothers are out there whose husbands don't know of their kid's existance and prefer it this way.
What we gain by opposing gay unions:
1. A feeling of superiority that our unions, be they Muslim, Buddhist, or Civil, are somehow more special.
2. A group to look down on from our moral highground.
I think it is a sorry state of affairs in which think our happiness can be taken away from by granting happiness to other people. Not an entirely Christian thing to feel, that.
I have lived in the states and will never live there again, it is exactly this type of thinking that disgusts me. The pursuit of happiness and all men created equal my arse.