by Pin Cushion Queen on Tue Mar 30, 2004 10:40 pm
I understand that abortions can take place until quite late in the pregnancy, but I think that most people would undergo them at an early stage. In betwen periods there is a gap of 3-4 weeks. If at the end of this gap a woman's period didn't start I would think that the majority of women would then get tested, and if the pregnancy test was positive, they would then consider the options. Now since by this point in time maybe 4 weeks at most have passed since the feotus was conceived, if that feotus was then aborted it would be roughly 5mm in size. By eight weeks the feotus is approximately 2.4cm in size (taken from NHS direct website).
Look at a ruler. 5mm is tiny. 2.4cm is small too. So when you produce shocking images of a 21 week old feotus it has little relationship with how a 5 week old embryo looks (classed as an embryo until week 8). I would hope that the majority of sensible, intelligent women would not wait till 21 weeks, aside from the photographs you posted, waiting that long could cause serious mental distress to the pregnant woman. Therefore when people say "collections of cells", thats what they mean. They don't mean the awful images you posted, they mean the first few weeks, when thats what it is, it is a collection of cells.
There have been numerous arguements both for and against, though only one from the anti-abortion camp was new to me, and that was that the feotus had unique DNA. This made me seriously consider my position as I had never heard that arguement before, however I remain unchanged in my views.
It was mentioned that giving the baby up for adoption was an option. That is true, however if a baby is given up for adoption they still have ties to their parents. Children given up for adoption now have the right to find out who their parents where. My mother was adopted and she has been researching into her past on and off for the last 15 or so years. This is a natural thing to do, to find out where you come from, and I think the legislation making it easier is a good thing, however it also means that there will always be the possibility of the child getting in contact with the parents. I believe it was even mentioned when the act was first discussed that this might make more people opt for abortion instead.
As mentioned before, a number of the anti-abortion posters seem to be male. I have to confess that this makes me a little less willing to respect their stand, because they have never had and will never have to make that decision. Every month, a day or two before my period is due to start, I get the tiniest bit of tension in my gut. If I feel the smallest twing in my stomach I try to decide if that is the onset of cramps, and thus my period, or not. For a day every month I am more stressed out than I should be, because I know that I would hate to have to take the decision on whether to have an abortion or not. Either decision causes wounds that won't heal lightly. Once my period didn't start till an entire week after it should, and I was frantic. Tell me, as a man, whether any of this sounds like what you go through every month? Whilst I respect that males can have certain strong views on the matter, at the end of the day, it is the woman who first realises she is pregnant, it is the woman who has to go to see the doctors, it is the woman who has to carry the feotus in her body for nine months if she decides to have it, and it is the woman who has to live with the decision and possible guilt if she decides not to have it.