Mushroom God: Your point is completely irrelevant, since I was advancing an argument to suggest that Scandinavia isn't that great a place to live after all. You can't really defeat that by saying 'oh, but it is anyway': we call that baseless assertion.
Badger Machine: the only mark of a good society is how well off the poor are? Has anything quite so ridiculous ever been written? People are poor in a capitalist system precisely because they are not able to give others what they want: they are less instrumentally valuable to their fellows, and so they receive less reward. Your argument suggests that the only mark of a good society is how well off it can render its least useful members, at the expense, presumably, of those who are more useful.
Now, if you believe that how hard a person works, and how useful they are able to make themselves to others, is utterly irrelevant to how they should be treated by everyone else, then you might have a reason for thinking like this; I hope you extend this to its logical conclusions in your personal relationships by, for instance, not distinguishing in the way you think of and treat people by how pleasent they are to you. I, however, think that this is a load of nonsense, and that people should receive just rewards for their work, and that these rewards should include the ability to choose between as diverse a range of goods and services as possible.
None of this shows that the state shouldn't care for those who are genuinely disadvantaged, but it does illustrate precisely why equality of outcomes should never be pursued as a political end.