Finally, the reason why you're not being listened to isn't that your style is 'hard-hitting'. You always go on about that, as though it's some kind of virtue. It might be in some people's cases, but in yours it's merely a euphemism. I'll tell you something. I like to consider myself quite a plain speaker, in meetings, on message boards and in private conversations. I don't mince my words, and I don't like it when people do. But there's a big difference between that, saying what you think in a plain manner, and being downright offensive, belittling people, trying to mount some sort of pseudo-psychological character assassination. What is it that makes you think a total absence of tact, which has to my specific knowledge led you to hurt people very deeply, is in some way a good thing? Do you think that the people you've hurt, the friendships you've broken, are somehow justified by the fact that, hey, you spoke your mind? Why is that so damned important to you?
Absence of tact - yes. Friendships I've hurt - hmmm, if people have a problem with me, I generally respect them more for coming to me and telling me what's up, or if someone has the
tactful initiative to come to me and tell me where I'm out of order.
Posting things about my personality on a website is exactly what I'd call lack of tact.
By the way, most of
your so-called friends think you're a t*sser too.
Is that what you mean by lack of tact?
Bean, you can be the most inconsiderate arsehole, as I can. I've always been about the take me or leave me part, and if you can't deal with me, ignore me and stop crying about me. For fuck's sake young man.
And the reason I'm not going to be listened to isn't as you say, that no-one agrees with me. there seem to be a few of my posts that have meandered into each other, and, if you'd stop jumping up and down like a 5 year old, you might actually recognise that along with the dissent, there's quite a bit of agreement in there as well, sort it all out from the dissent and you'll see that some people actually do feel that what I've said has some body to it.
Now, f*ck off and if you have a problem with the way I've been Bean, come and tell me and I'll more than happily talk about it and hopefully clear up any of your future tantrums before thay happen.
Remember the t*sser bit.
Oh, and please, forgive my similar lack of tact.
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[s]Cogitationis poenam nemo meretur, facias ipse quod faciamus suades - pax vobiscum.[/s]
We are gentlemen that neither in our hearts nor outward eyes envy the great nor shall the low despise.