Why all the hatred? Mrs Ross is only trying to do everyone a good turn. No really, she is. Imagine for a minute that I'm walking down Market Street and happen to notice that your flat is on fire. And I know you're asleep inside. Do I walk quietly past, careful not to wake you in case I upset you? No, I make sure you know the danger you're in.
So if there really is eternal judgement for all who do not trust the Lord Jesus Christ as Saviour (as stated in the Bible), and if the only way to avoid that judgement is through turning from our wrongdoing and trusting in the Lord Jesus Christ (as stated in the Bible), then is she not doing you all a favour by telling you? Is it maybe time to listen to what she has to say?